Charles Spurgeon once wrote…There’s a story that’s told about Napoleon…Two frogs were talking one day… – Let’s get real: Most people don’t read Spurgeon. I don’t. I read one Spurgeon book in Bible College, ‘Lectures to My Students.” To this day, it’s probably one of my favorite books of all time. Probably because of the story he tells about a student that he wouldn’t let into his Pastors’ school because his tongue was too long! I wonder if he went on to play bass for Kiss? But we don’t read Spurgeon’s writings. Let’s be honest, we read Bible Illustrator. Sorry, the secret is out. It’s true, we weren’t alive to hear the speech Oliver Cromwell gave 200 years ago. We got it from Bible Illustrator or a quote book. Why we tell adults stories about animals that have conversations is absurd! I look back at old messages that I have given and why no one told me that the story about the 2 birds talking about flying south for the winter was dumb must be pure grace. People want to hear about our life. They want to hear that you go through the same stuff they do. This is the stuff that begins to connect the message for them. If they believe you live in another world, they disengage. But if you tell a story about being in the grocery store, they will say, “He goes to the grocery store too? Maybe what he has to say is relevant to me.” If you want to quote someone, quote someone they’ve heard of like an actor, musician, or athlete. Most of the time what you want to say is the same, it will just have a greater impact than quoting some person who died 500 years ago. That reminds me of this story about 3 ducks…
2 out of 3 ain’t bad!
Yes that’s right, I just quoted Meatloaf! I never thought I’d ever use that sentence. But my weekend prediction was right. The Red Sox took 2 out of 3 from the Yankees in the Bronx (That’s gotta sting)! But I feel great since the Red Sox out hit the Yankees 43 to 14 over the last 2 games. That’s brutal! The Sox have proved why they are the World Champions ( I love how that sounds)!
Get to the Point!
I’m a huge fan of the 1-point message that Andy Stanley has made famous. It has totally changed the way that I communicate. I believe that I am a better teacher because of it. I came from the traditional homiletical style that I learned in Bible College. So when we started our church 4 1/2 years ago, I would walk up to the pulpit (I used one back then), and take out my notes that were in formal Roman numeral style and alliterate my points and sub-points. I have talked with many communicators about this and I was converted to the style of teaching 1 point for several reasons:
#1 – No one talks in alliteration – When was the last time you recounted a trip using 3 “P” letter words? We went to #1 – The Park/ #2 – The Pizza Place/ #3 – The Plane. Instead, be conversational in your communicating. The best communicators are people who you feel are just talking to you, instead of explaining their grocery list.
#2 – People don’t remember much – It’s Sunday evening and everything I taught this morning is already slipping away…and I wrote the message! Imagine the person who was trying to stay awake listening to me! I believe people will remember more about 1 point explained thoroughly, than tidbits about 3 points.
#3 – Wasted Time – You’ve got 40 minutes to teach life-changing truth. But we are stacking the cards against us if we are going to have 5 points that we need to introduce and transition from. Especially if the alliterated word doesn’t totally fit (You’re like me, admit it – You will make an “R” letter word fit if you need to), you have to explain how it makes total sense in light of the subject.
#4 – Bottom line the message – Sting once said that a song isn’t really a song if you can’t play it with just an acoustic guitar. I believe the same principle applies to communicating. Can I boil down the message to 1 phrase that adequately describes the text and subject matter I am teaching? People will not remember your whole message. They’ll remember the story about your dog and the 1 line that you keep repeating over and over (i.e. “I have a dream” – Dr. King)
#5 – A.C.E. the acronyms (Acronyms Confuse Everyone) – What the obsession with acronyms is, I will never know. I have drawn a line in the sand that I hate them. They fall in the same category as canned preacher jokes (That’s another blog in itself). Most of the time we have a word for 4 out of 5 letters, but we cram the last one in and end up spending the most time on that one because we had to explain how it really does make sense.
So there you have it. A 5-point post about how you should have a 1-point message. Very logical…
Name that Movie!
I’ve decided that each week I am going to pull from my arsenal of useless pop culture information and create some trivia for each of us to enjoy. So I will be posting a quote from a movie (Usually a cult classic 80′s film) and our job will be to guess the name of the movie. If you are really daring give us the name of the character who said the line. So here’s the first one (It’s not easy):
“I’ve been going to this high school for seven and a half years. I’m no dummy.”
Have fun…
The Names have been changed to Protect the Innocent
Our church is building out an 18,000 square foot facility 3 miles from our current location. It takes us outside of Miami Lakes which is where we started, so we want to change the name of our church so we aren’t Calvary Chapel Miami Lakes, but in different city. Due to the size of cities in South Florida, we prefer a name that isn’t tied to a location. We want to keep “Calvary”, but I’d love some input as to what we should rename our church. So fire away…